Separation Anxiety seems to be on the rise in dogs. However, is it Separation Anxiety (SA) or misbehavior? You must first know what you’re dealing with before you can treat it. If it’s misbehavior, especially if punishment has been used, dogs learn that when the owner is not present to control the behavior, they can do what they want. When the cats away, the mice will play! If this is the case, the dog needs training and exercise.
If the dog is truly anxious, some of the symptoms of SA are panting, sweating, whining, salivating and pacing. The results can be devastating: destroyed furniture, window coverings, doors, injury to the dog, and worst of all, some owners have surrendered their dog.
Use a video camera or in-home surveillance to determine if it is really SA or just bad behavior. If your dog becomes destructive or shows any of the mentioned SA symptoms immediately after your departure, then you most likely have a case of SA. You need to start building the dog’s confidence immediately. When you’re home, do not give your dog unrestricted access to you or family members. This sets him up for failure. He becomes over-dependent. He must learn that it’s ok not to have constant attention and it is ok, and even enjoyable to be alone.
If your dog is crate trained, and I hope he is, put him in the crate for short periods of time, with the crate next to you or close by. Give him a stuffed chew toy or bone so that he learns to enjoy confinement and being left alone. When you take him out of the crate, pick up the chew toy. Start leaving him for longer periods of time, but do not let him become anxious. Take it slow. You must take him out while he is still calm. Make no fuss when opening the crate. There should be no reward for being let out. As difficult as it can be, wait to give your dog attention until he is calm. Do not reward the anxious behavior. The same is true when you return home. Do not give in to anxious or excited behavior.
This is a very brief overview of SA. There are many resources, by renowned behaviorists on how to prevent and treat SA. I have listed some below. If you feel you need help, please seek out a certified trainer that specializes in SA and that uses positive reinforcement methods only.
One thing is for sure, it is easier to prevent SA than it is to treat it. So if you’re looking to get a new puppy, please educate yourself on this very important topic.
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